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Tom Brady, Gisele Bundchen. Tom Brady and Gisele Bundchen attend The Metropolitan Museum of Art's Costume Institute benefit gala celebrating the opening of the Heavenly Bodies: Fashion and the Catholic Imagination exhibition, in New York
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Going strong! Tom Brady and his wife, Gisele Bündchen, are “really proud of how far they’ve come” in their marriage since attending counseling, a source told Life & Style.
“He realized he could lose everything and promised to make big changes,” the insider revealed. “He agreed to quit the Patriots and sign with a team in a location that was more desirable to Gisele, and, believe it or not, Tom stuck to his word.”
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Gisele Bundchen, Tom Brady
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In March 2020, Tom, 43, who played quarterback for the New England Patriots for nearly two decades, announced his departure from the team to join the Tampa Bay Buccaneers. “Since moving to Florida, Tom and Gisele have never been happier,” the source assured. “They have date nights every week and always make sure to communicate.”
Tom’s involvement as a parent was a big catalyst in the couple’s decision to seek counseling. “A couple of years ago, [Gisele] didn’t feel like I was doing my part for the family,” the California native recalled during an April 2020 interview with Howard Stern. “She felt like I would play football all season and she would take care of the house, and then all of a sudden when the season ended, I’d be like, ‘Great, let me get into all of my other business activities. Let me get into my football training,’ and she’s sitting there going, ‘Well when are you going to do things for the house? When are you going to take the kids to school and do that?’”
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Tampa Bay Buccaneers quarterback Tom Brady (L) walks his daughter Vivian (2R) his son Jack (R) wife Gisele Bundchen (3R) and son Benjamin (L) after the Buccaneers deafeated the Kansas City Chiefs to win the National Football League Super Bowl LV at Raymond James Stadium in Tampa, Florida, USA, 07 February 2021.
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Tom went on to admit that he did feel “resentful” toward Gisele at one point. However, he quickly changed his tune. “She actually wrote me a letter, and it was a very thought-out letter that she wrote to me, and I still have it and I keep it in a drawer, and I read it,” he explained. “It’s a very heartfelt letter for her to say this is where I’m at in our marriage, and it’s a good reminder for me that things are going to change and evolve over time. What happened and what worked for us 10 years ago won’t work for us forever because we are growing in different ways.”
To conclude, Tom advised listeners that a relationship has “to work for both partners” in order to be “sustainable.”